Thursday, 10 May 2012

He's not a prince, she's not a princess.

This morning I was doing my morning check of my Facebook news feed, when I came across a photo a friend of mine posted. I love it when this happens, because pictures amuse me - they're usually funny. But this one just irritated me.

On the photo it said something along the lines of "Girls think they deserve a prince, blah blah blah, but girls don't deserve a Disney prince if they don't look or act like a Disney princess."

Really?

The last time I checked, there isn't many girls that have eyes the size of golf balls, and hair that always falls perfectly no matter how hard or fast they're running. Take a guy who is feeling insecure one day, multiply it by seven billion, and that is how every girl feels every day.

Don't get me wrong, I think this whole "all guys are jerks, why even bother" charade is pathetic. Personally, I think the point of a relationship is finding someone that accepts you despite your faults and insecurities, and loving them the same way.

But that isn't the point.

To the ladies; guys aren't perfect. They never have been, and they never will be. They aren't going to be romantic every second of the day. Men were not put on Earth to satisfy your every need - but when you find someone that is right for you, that is what they're going to want to do. ALSO, most of the females complaining about guys are in middle school or high school. Do you honestly, I mean TRULY, expect to find your "soul mate" in high school? Nope. Last thing, us girls can be real assholes too.

To the gentlemen; stop complaining about being friend-zoned, grow a pair, and ask her out. If you're friends with her, it's likely she liked you at one point - pun unintended. Stop complaining about how girls are selfish and have unrealistic views of you, again, grow a pair, and do something sweet for her every once and a while. That doesn't mean you have to bring her flowers and chocolate every day, but maybe open a door, or pull out a chair. Nobody ever got friend-zoned for chivalry.

And to all you people who see it as it is; good on ya.

3 comments:

  1. I have one word for this, Beth!..... Nice. :P (to your blog and not the plate of coleslaw)

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    1. Well... Your FACE reminds me of a plate of coleslaw! ;D

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  2. Betty, you make me smile. :) This totally made my day.

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